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club · Kalamazoo, Michigan, US
West Michigan social club hosting events in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids and Newaygo.
Visitor requirements: Ages 21+. New members must register before reserving an event. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Rio Rancho, New Mexico, US
Private lifestyle social group serving the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and Santa Fe area of New Mexico.
Visitor requirements: Ages 21+. Orientation and advance RSVP are required; confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Manhattan, New York, US
Members-only lifestyle club on Manhattan’s Upper East Side in New York City.
Visitor requirements: Ages 21+. Approved membership required; no walk-ins. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Cleveland, Ohio, US
Private lifestyle club in Cleveland, Ohio.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Columbus, Ohio, US
Private members-only lifestyle club in Columbus, Ohio.
Visitor requirements: Membership required. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Portland, Oregon, US
Club Privata is a lifestyle nightclub in Portland with three floors, a DJ dance floor, two full-service bars, a dining area and private and semi-private adult spaces. Lockers, showers, towels and coat check are available. Bring a lock or purchase one at the club. Outside alcohol is not permitted.
Visitor requirements: Guests must be 21 or older and bring valid ID on every visit. Each person must complete a waiver. Most events require active membership plus a separate admission fee; check the calendar for exceptions such as Newbie’s Night and the published first-visit guest policy. The dress code is enforced. Phones, photography and video recording are prohibited inside, and consent is required before touching. Confirm the event’s admission rules and availability before travelling.
club · Tukwila, Washington, US
Club Sapphire is a private lifestyle club in Tukwila serving the Seattle, Bellevue and Tacoma area. Facilities include a DJ dance floor, social areas, private and group adult spaces, lockers and showers. The club provides towels, light refreshments, non-alcoholic drinks and free parking.
Visitor requirements: 21+. Membership and event admission are separate charges; one-week memberships are available. Apply online, verify your email, bring photo ID and complete first-visit orientation. Single/solo men must arrange their separate orientation and approval in advance and have a confirmed ticket; an RSVP is not a ticket. Follow the dress code and consent rules. No photography or phone use in social or adult spaces. Confirm date-specific admission with the club.
club · Salisbury, Massachusetts, US
Members-only lifestyle social club in Salisbury, Massachusetts, serving New England.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Breckenridge, Colorado, US
Polyamory community retreat organizer hosting weekends in Breckenridge, Colorado.
Visitor requirements: Ages 21+. Registration and agreement to the organizer’s consent rules are required. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Kansas City, US
Private members’ social club offering themed events in the Kansas City area.
Visitor requirements: Advance vetting and approval required; no walk-ins. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Wichita, Kansas, US
Event organizer with public calendars for Wichita, Chicago and Milwaukee.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Chicago, Illinois, US
Lifestyle community organizing events for open couples in Chicago.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Chamcook, New Brunswick, CA
Lifestyle party hosts in Chamcook, near Saint Andrews, New Brunswick.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Dallas, Texas, US
Dallas-based lifestyle event organizer hosting hotel takeovers in destinations including Scottsdale.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · St. Louis, Missouri, US
Lifestyle and couples-event organizer in St. Louis, Missouri.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Colorado, US
Private lifestyle community in Colorado organizing events and educational workshops.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · New Jersey, US
Singles-event organizer offering speed dating and in-person social events across New Jersey.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Columbus, Ohio, US
Private members-only lifestyle social club in Columbus, Ohio.
Visitor requirements: Ages 21+. Membership required. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · New Carlisle, Ohio, US
Lifestyle party organizer in New Carlisle, near Dayton, Ohio.
Visitor requirements: Ages 21+. Bring ID; the organizer states that membership and advance reservations are not required. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Cleveland, Ohio, US
BDSM social organization and educational community serving greater Cleveland, Ohio.
Visitor requirements: Ages 19+ for membership and most events. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · San Francisco, California, US
Private adult nightclub in San Francisco, California.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Yorkville, Illinois, US
Lifestyle club and event organizer in Yorkville, Illinois.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, US
Down2Play community and event organizer in the Oklahoma City area.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Kansas City, US
Queer-centered community space hosting sexuality, arts and connection-focused events in Kansas City.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Littleton, Colorado, US
Private lifestyle organization holding events at Squirrel Creek Lodge in Littleton, Colorado.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · San Francisco Bay Area, California, US
Singles community organizing social activities and dating events across the San Francisco Bay Area.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Albuquerque, New Mexico, US
Ethical non-monogamy community and private lifestyle club serving New Mexico.
Visitor requirements: Membership must be arranged before attending; it is not available at the door. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Catonsville, Maryland, US
Lifestyle social club in Catonsville, Maryland.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Nottingham, England, GB
UK lifestyle party organizer with events at venues including Purple Mamba in Nottingham.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Dallas, Texas, US
Singles community organizing in-person social and dating events in Dallas and the surrounding area.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Manhattan, New York, US
Members-only lifestyle club in Tribeca, Manhattan.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Milwaukee, Wisconsin, US
Adult lifestyle social club near downtown Milwaukee, Wisconsin.
Visitor requirements: Ages 21+. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Spring Grove, Pennsylvania, US
Private members-only lifestyle club in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania.
Visitor requirements: Membership required for all attendees. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Crete, Illinois, US
Lifestyle club in Crete, Illinois.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Lacombe, Louisiana, US
Private-home lifestyle event host in Lacombe, near New Orleans, Louisiana.
Visitor requirements: Advance registration required. First-time guests must complete a tour and the organizer’s waiver/rules process. Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Las Vegas, Nevada, US
Lifestyle party venue in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US
Private members’ social club in the Pittsburgh area with lifestyle events and workshops.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Newport, Pennsylvania, US
Lifestyle club in Newport, Pennsylvania.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Omaha, Nebraska, US
Fetish-event community with Omaha and Des Moines groups.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Connecticut, US
Lifestyle club in Connecticut. Confirm the current venue with the organizer.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
club · Dearborn Heights, Michigan, US
Lifestyle bar and social-event venue in Dearborn Heights, Michigan.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.
community · Kansas City, US
Lifestyle community organizing private parties and social events in the Kansas City area.
Visitor requirements: Confirm current guest requirements with the organizer.